The Respect Dare So yesterday we took a good look at our bedroom...today we look in the mirror. (Yikes! :) ) Daring all of us today to rethink the effort we put into ourselves while we were trying to get caught by this man...the effort we made in our appearance and behavior while courting...daring all of us to make a commitment to put effort back into ourselves, physically, emotionally, spiritually, whatever made us interesting and attractive before - let's not be women who "let themselves go!"