The Respect Dare Is God teaching your husband something? :) Dare you to be wise in what you choose to say (especially now). Often, "I told you so," or "You need to...," or "Why don't you...," or, "If you would...," incites a rebellious response and gets in the way of what God is teaching. We need to: 1) let the Holy Spirit stir our husbands and, 2) not do anything that can interfere with our husband's hearing Him. :)