Give Grace


October 20, 2010

tags: Teri Lynne Underwood, John, Colossians, 1 Peter, grace, Hebrewsby Teri Lynne Underwood

.Grace … receiving what we do not deserve.



We cling to this verse:



For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith–and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. Ephesians 2:8-9, NIV



Not from ourselves. Not of ourselves. Not through ourselves.



We can’t earn grace. We don’t deserve grace. It is the gift of God.



But somehow, though we have been given such great grace so freely, we are stingy with it. We demand grace be given according to our need and yet we resist offering that same grace to others.



It happens in churches. A lot.



The pastor’s sermon isn’t as well delivered as I’d like.



The worship leader doesn’t sing the same words as are on the screen.



The Sunday School teacher is distracted and the lesson isn’t very good.



The nursery worker failed to change the baby’s diaper before I picked her up so she was wet. Very wet.



No one spoke to me during the welcome time.



But what if you knew that the pastor had been at the hospital all night comforting parents whose child had been in a car accident and was in a coma.



Or what if you knew the worship leader had received a call early Sunday morning that his best friend’s wife had left him.



What if the Sunday School teacher hadn’t studied because he was laid off last week and was just having a hard time figuring out how to trust God in the midst of his fears about providing for his family.



And what if that nursery worker hadn’t changed your sweet baby’s diaper because she had spent time comforting the child of a visitor who had never been to church before.



What if the people who normally speak to you didn’t because they were checking on a young widow who was back at church for the first time since her husband’s tragic death.



Does that make a difference?



Should it?



Truthfully, not a bit.



Our extension of grace should never be based on our feelings or understanding of a situation. Instead, we are called to give grace because we have received grace.



And, this is never more true than in our local faith families. Jesus spoke to this truth plainly:



“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.” John 13:34-35, NIV



Love gives grace … willingly.



We must give grace in our words.



Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6 NIV



We must give grace to prevent conflict.



See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. Hebrews 12:15 NIV



We must give grace as we serve.



Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms. 1 Peter 4:10 NIV



Am I saying this will be easy? Nope! It won’t. In fact, giving grace is hard. Giving grace requires laying down self and giving priority to others. Giving grace necessitates that we let go of our expectations and focus instead on encouraging others.



But time and again, I have seen this truth: Grace multiplies!



And so my challenge to you is to give grace in your church. To the pastors, the leaders, the teachers, the nursery workers, the technical crew, and to the people in the pews.



Time and again, give grace! Not because “they” deserve it but because you didn’t deserve it either.



Have you seen grace multiplied in your church? How can you give grace this week?